Is it all woo woo?

glass sphere reflects trees and lake upside down

What if it just wasn’t that woo? What if it wasn’t that quixotic? What if it wasn’t even that esoteric? What if some things are just at the frontiers of science? What if we recognised that everyone has had an experience of being definitely “me”, but doing what the body is doing? We call it … Read more

The experience of duality

Kind of a follow up to “What’s the Point of Life?”  One point was experience.  And, just like travelling, the ‘point’ of experience is to experience something different. To see a new place, taste new food, see new customs.  If our essential nature is nondual (which means no separation) then it makes sense that this … Read more

What’s the Point of Life?

I still have a secret preference for “there is no point”. Which holds true at an ultimate level – the level at which there is no person to ask the question, no time, no change, no nothing.  So, it’s not actually that helpful. A lot of management training simplifies people to an x-axis and a … Read more

Because You Are Already Worth It

We all (well, most all) know that the worth of a person is not in what they achieve. When we’re faced with the big stuff, we know not to measure value by age, athleticism, health, wealth or relationships. Yet in the smaller times, we’re inundated with messages that somehow make right where we are “less … Read more

Love x Three

You’ve probably heard of the classic Greek agape, eros and philia? Well, this isn’t that.  Most people love with their heads, not their heart or their gut.  By that I mean they experience a mental feeling state of love. It’s very conditional: “I love you because of what you do.” That doesn’t make it wrong. It’s the … Read more

Living Life Sideways 2024

The world is turning, apparently. Unless you believe it’s flat. Anyways, I’m being nudged into changing what I’m offering. All my one-off individual calls are moving to members-only, because I think one-off calls without ongoing relationship can do more harm than good. But I’m still selling little blocks of five calls openly. Membership is only … Read more

The Sweet Spot for Manipulation

There’s a moment most savvy marketers ask for video testimonials – and that’s right near the end of an event, when everyone is full of the lovey feelings. You might argue that’s the most appropriate time, when the event is still fresh in the mind and the impact is at its highest. Yet we know … Read more

I Don’t Know

A lot of the time, I just don’t know. I don’t have the answers. I do have a lot of questions. I don’t know how to solve the many problems I see in the world. Pretty much the only things that feel true are these: I might be wrong. I don’t know. Sara x Photo … Read more